1. Prepare Older Children (If Possible)

• Talk about the new baby in simple terms
• Involve them where you can

👉 Helps reduce uncertainty and anxiety

2. Offer Reassurance

• Remind children they are loved
• Use simple, positive attention

👉 Even a few minutes of focused time can make a difference

3. Avoid Comparisons

• Try not to compare siblings
• Focus on each child individually

👉 Every child develops and behaves differently

4. Praise Positive Behaviour

• Notice when siblings play nicely
• Acknowledge kindness and cooperation

👉 This encourages more of the same behaviour

5. Stay Calm During Conflict

• Stay neutral where possible
• Avoid blaming one child

👉 Focus on helping both children understand and resolve the issue

6. Create Small One‑to‑One Moments

• Spend time with each child separately
• Even short moments can help

👉 Builds confidence and reduces jealousy

🧠 Helping Children Learn to Share & Communicate

Young children are still learning emotional skills.

You can help by:

• Naming feelings (“I can see you're upset”)
• Modelling calm behaviour
• Teaching simple sharing and turn‑taking

👉 These skills develop over time — not instantly

🤱 After a New Baby Arrives

Older children may:

• Want more attention
• Copy baby behaviours
• Feel unsure or left out

👉 Helpful strategies:

• Include them in safe, simple baby care
• Talk positively about their role (“You’re such a great helper”)
• Give them attention when they are calm — not only when acting out