When a new baby arrives or children grow up together, it’s very common for tensions to develop between siblings.

This can look like:

• Arguments or fighting
• Jealousy or attention‑seeking
• Regression in behaviour (e.g. wanting to be “like the baby”)
• Emotional outbursts

👉 Sibling rivalry is a normal part of growing up — not a sign that something is wrong

At Basch Helps, we understand that managing relationships between children can feel overwhelming — especially alongside everything else parents are balancing.

💛 Why Sibling Rivalry Happens

Siblings may compete because:

• They want attention and reassurance
• They are adjusting to change (e.g. a new baby)
• They don’t yet have the skills to manage emotions
• They feel unsure about their place in the family

👉 Often, behaviour is a way of saying:
“I need attention, reassurance, or help”

🧠 What It Can Look Like

Sibling rivalry can show up as:

• Fighting over toys or space
• Saying “it’s not fair”
• Acting out when attention is on another child
• Becoming more clingy or emotional

👉 This can increase during:

• Pregnancy or after a new baby arrives
• Times of stress or change
• Sleep disruption or routine changes

💛 If Things Feel Difficult

Sibling arguments can feel:

• Exhausting
• Repetitive
• Emotionally draining

👉 It’s important to remember:

This stage is a normal part of development — even when it feels hard

❤️ What Really Helps Long‑Term

• Consistency over perfection
• Calm responses (as much as possible)
• Encouraging connection — not competition
• Allowing children to learn through experience

👉 Relationships between siblings often improve over time

💛 A Gentle Reminder for Parents

You may:

• Feel overwhelmed
• Feel like you’re constantly managing conflict
• Worry you’re not handling it “right”

👉 You are doing your best — and that matters.

❤️ How Basch Helps Can Support You

We understand that parenting more than one child can bring real challenges.

We can:

• Offer emotional support through befriending
• Provide practical support through AngelBox
• Signpost to local family and parenting services
• Be a safe space to talk

👉 You do not have to manage this alone